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Married 7 years; working Priority 1 Ministries and a couple of bill-paying positions; daughter Virginia Mei now 2 years old, her little sister due in October

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March 17

Stepping Out

The video now playing shows our little Ginny's first steps, dated March 14, 2008.  Who would have thought that her own purple sock would become the motivation for stepping out on her own!Open-mouthed

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December 08

Ginny's First Blog

If you’ve followed this site at all, then you’ve seen pictures of Ginny.  She’s growing and developing faster than we know what to do with.  She was kind enough recently to outline her day for us:

·         My day starts when it’s still dark.  I cry out for some inexplicable reason 1-3 times during the night while I should be sleeping.  This keeps Mommy and Daddy honest.  And nervous.  Oh, and tense that I’m not actually asleep.  Hee hee.

·         Wake for real around 7am, give or take 45 minutes or so.  I usually stand at the end of my crib and look to see if Mommy is awake – if both our doors are open I can see right into their room.  Then I yell.  Then Mommy comes in and gets me.  Daddy’s already long gone for work, and I won’t see him until about quarter after three.

·         Breakfast is fruit and rice cereal.  Yum!  I like to take my eyes off the spoon Mommy’s holding so that I get purple stuff all over my chin.

·         I play on the living room floor while Mommy gets food for herself.  We like to watch the Today Show together. 

·         What happens next depends on how much Mommy needs to get done.  I might play on the floor while she washes dishes.  The best days are when we play peek-a-boo together.  Oh!  And there’s always the door stopper in the hallway to play with – it makes a fun bwinnggggg sound.

·         Then I get grumpy and Mommy puts me in my crib for a nap.  If I’m not tired enough, I stand up in my crib approximately every two minutes so Mommy has to come in and lay me back down again. 

·         (I also have my diaper changed frequently during the day.  I didn’t think you cared about that too much, though.)

·         After the nap is lunch.  It’s usually something homemade, like bananas and berries or broccoli and cauliflower.  All pureed and mushy, of course.  Yum!  Since I have three teeth now, I can have Cheerios one by one and these little rice puff things that I suck on until they turn to mush.  I also started eating bits of bread and other soft stuff recently.

·         After lunch Mommy goes shopping with me sometimes.  I’m usually a very good girl at the store.  Lots of people look and smile at me.  I don’t smile back unless it’s a kid.

·         Daddy gets home, like I said above, after three.  Sometimes I’m already done with my second nap, sometimes I’m in the middle of it, and sometimes I haven’t even started it yet!  I like to keep Mommy and Daddy guessing.  I always smile big when I see Daddy, though.  It is the first time I’ve seen him all day, after all!

·         Sometimes I’m grumpy in the afternoon, sometimes I’m chipper.  No matter what, I like to crawl all around the apartment to grab all the stuff I’m not supposed to: power cords, DVD player, trash can, loose strings in the carpet.  Mommy and Daddy have this word they like: NO.  I know exactly what it means, but when they say it to me, I generally just turn around, smile at them, then continue what I was doing. 

·         Dinner is 5ish and could be a lot of things, lately: all kinds of vegetables, different fruits, and even a little meat.  All mushy, of course.  I like sitting in my high chair and occasionally play with my foot while I eat.

·         Maybe once a week I go with Mommy and Daddy in the evening to a church so that they can talk to the youth group there about missions.  I play with Auntie Erin [that is, Priority 1’s Children’s Ministries Coordinator] in the back and she gives me snacks. 

·         If I have to ride in the car, I don’t like riding home.  I usually cry a lot.  Mommy and Daddy say it’s because I’m tired and need to go to sleep, but all I know is I get strapped in to my chair and can only look out the back window for the entire trip. 

·         Before bed, I get one last bottle, for which I clamor expectantly.  I usually fall asleep in Mommy’s arms and she puts me into my crib for the night.  I suck exclusively on my left thumb.  Daddy’s hoping – I can tell – that I’m going to be a lefty like him.

July 01

Training Camp!

The first week of July has arrived, bringing with it the essential pinnacle of the year for us. Priority 1 Ministries' Training Camp is here, and this is what Bethany and I have been preparing for since last Fall. Despite small numbers -- this year we have only a single team that will go to Romania -- Training Camp will be as intensive and thorough as if we had six teams: sessions throughout the day on "reaching out", prayer, spiritual conflict, and many other topics; nightly rallies with great music worship times and amazing keynote speakers; and training on how to design and run kids' Bible Clubs. It's a crazy, busy, wonderful week, and we request prayer for all of it. Lift up Tyler and Melissa (the team leaders), Alaina, Elise, Sarah, Leann, and Amos, leaving for Romania on July 8th.
June 09

Plugging Along

"Oh, we're plugging along."

That's what I've been telling people lately when they ask how we're doing.  And we are.  Ginny is growing well and smiles all the time: a smile that melts anyone in the room and incites more goo-gooing by anyone present than should be permitted by law -- but she's just so darn cute!  We can't help it!  She's up to a whopping 12.5 lbs. and 23" at 4 months, and had her second batch of immunizations last week. (Incidentally, watching one's firstborn receive shots is easily one of the least pleasant experiences in this life.) She likes to stand up (with our help, of course) and has discovered that she likes to suck on her fingers almost more than the pacifier she's had since the beginning.  Oh, and she is indeed sleeping through the night -- everyone asks us that.  Her normal schedule is 9:30pm to 7am, sometimes more.  So that's good.

I am still working at the warehouse, a job becoming less desirable with each passing day, not only because it's freaking hot in those trailers these days, but even more because Priority 1's Training Camp is rapidly approaching, and despite the sincere desire of my heart to quit the warehouse and work full-time for Priority 1 -- and thus be available for every hour of Training Camp -- our current finances seem to prohibit it.  We simply haven't raised enough support. 

This is frustrating for a couple of reasons: first, work at the warehouse can be physically exhausting, leaving little energy for much else at all; second, we had plenty of support when we were in China -- more than enough, in fact -- but most of that has not carried over to our work with Priority 1; third, there seems to be so much that we could do, so many possibilities, so much potential at Priority 1, if only we were able to devote more time to it.  I'm not sure which of these is the most frustrating.

We understand fully that things take time, and that we must be patient.  God has and will provide for the things we need, and we know this because He tells us He will.  My human impertinence, however, wonders how long I'll have to bust my butt before I can really sink my teeth into what we came to Chambersburg for in the first place working for Priority 1 Ministries.  How long, O Lord?

It's not glamorous, but plugging along rarely is.  That's how we're doing.

Did I mention that Ginny smiles all the time now?  She's so cute.
March 08

A Surprise Birthday Party

It was about 10 pm. Earlier in the evening, Bethany had made a batch of brownies. They were cooling on the stove. And, we had just put on I, Robot (a surprisingly good movie), and it had reached the part in which the robot transport vehicles attack Will Smith in the tunnel, when Bethany came into the room.

"Um, I think my water just broke."

My heart rate doubled in about a half a second.

Bear in mind that we weren't due for more than a month. This was not supposed to happen yet. We were not at all ready for this: no crib, no clothes, no place of our own to live. This couldn't happen yet.

A quick phone call to the doctor's emergency number, and we were packing a bag for the hospital. The drive to the hospital, though not very long on a normal day, took (ahem) even less time this evening. Bethany walked into the hospital on her own power, and we got her checked in without incident. After getting into her room and her gown, the doctor came in, and within a minute or so of beginning to examine Bethany, informed us that we were going to have a baby soon. Now, I had fully expected to be told to go home, that it was a false alarm, that I could go home, finish I, Robot, and eat my brownie sundae. Alas, my lofty plans were not to come to fruition. At least not yet. We realized that we had packed nothing in our delivery bag for me, so we had Steve and Bonnie bring some of my stuff over. None of the books we had read warned us to pack stuff for the husband.

The doctor also told us that because Bethany hadn't reached her 35th week (she was 34 weeks and 6 days), she would have to deliver in either Harrisburg or Hershey, where they could handle preemies. It was also possible, because there was another preemie-bearing woman who had gotten to the hospital before us, that we would be helicoptered where we needed to go.

Well, we didn't take the helicopter, but at 4:30 am, Bethany was whisked away up to Harrisburg in an ambulance, and I followed a few minutes thereafter (they didn't wait for me!). Truly, that was the farthest I've driven on so little sleep: that wooden chair I was contorted into in the hospital was less than ideal for sleeping.

Harrisburg Hospital was, I must say, a lot nicer: the room was bigger, had a nice chair that folded out to allow weary husbands to recline fully, and had a pretty good cafe in the lobby (not to mention a Starbucks and Strawberry Square within walking distance). But now began the waiting.

"Hurry up and wait" could well describe our experience. Our time there began around 6 am, and Bethany's Mom arrived not too long afterwards (there's a story there too: for once in quite a while, she had gone out on a Saturday night, and was MIA for quite a while after we got to the hospital; Bethany's aunt had just begun on a search-and-rescue mission when Mom finally got back to us), but contractions didn't really begin until about 10 am. Since we hadn't gone to the childbirthing class (we were signed up to go the next weekend), Bethany's Mom coached her through breathing rhythms. At least we saved the fifty bucks for the class.

Two hours of contractions convinced Bethany that an epidural was the way to go. (Her advice now to expectant first-time mothers is "The epidural is your friend") She slept rather peacefully after that, despite continuing contractions (she didn't even know she was having them).

The epidural came about noon, and hard-core pushing started at 2 pm. Now, I wanted to be there with Bethany when the whole thing went down, but let's just say that I became integrally involved in the medical procedure happening before my eyes. I once almost passed out when I had to have a chunk of my big toenail removed, so I didn't know how I would do during a childbirth, especially when it's my own dear wife going through it.

I cut the cord. Oh yeah.

And Bethany magnified my love for her with every push. And there were a lot of pushes. Almost too many for me to bear, and I wasn't even the one experiencing them.

Man, I have to say, though, that I got a little scared when Ginny first came out: purple and white and slimy and limp and quiet. Everything was fine, though, and the screaming that soon proceeded from our little girl's mouth confirmed that her lungs were just fine. Five pounds, eleven and a half ounces. Big for being a month early. The staff all agreed, though, that because of the wrinkles on the soles of her feet, she was probably further along than 35 weeks, probably 36 or 37. So, as it turned out, we didn't really need to go up to Harrisburg.

It all happened the way it happened, praise God. Little Ginny is here, and we'll never give her back. She's almost six weeks old, has gained a couple of pounds, and just outgrew her first outfit (at the beginning, even preemie clothes were too big).

And on Tuesday night, finally back at Steve and Bonnie's, I had my brownie sundae. And it was good.